In researching Malignant Narcissism I found that many people/psychologists/counselors focus on the what. In fact, they seem to spend all their time there, rehashing over and over what Malignant Narcissism is. They may touch on the necessity of healing, but they spend precious little time here. It is my goal to focus most of my time on the healing aspect. There is enough information out there that can be researched with a few clicks on the internet. Staying ‘stuck’ on the ‘what’ will keep you bogged down and focused on the pain, torment, and hurt of the past. It will not help you to find peace or wholeness.
Today I came across this message from www.fathersheartministry.net –Russ and Kitty Walden have a good message that I believe can be applied to the healing process. Walking in love is imperative to healing. It doesn’t come immediately but it is crucial if you are going to truly experience wholeness and happiness.
Love and Bless!—Russ and Kitty Walden–www.fathersheartministry.net
The Father says today, “Open your heart. Say to your heart, ‘be opened.’ Say to your emotions, ‘be still, that the storm of disappointment will be calmed.’ Purpose this day not only to forgive, but to forgive 70 times 7. Then your testimony will be pure and your heart will be set at rest regarding the disappointments of the past. Behold, I will send those to you who have wronged you in the past. There will be circumstances that will cause you to cross paths with people who wounded you long ago. Purpose to be loving and kind and you will reap the reward of an obedient son, placing the Father’s heart above your own rights.
“Determine to live the love life,” says the Father. “I am Love. Love is who I am. Love is what I do. I am incapable of acting outside of love. If I did something outside of love then I would cease to be God and that is not possible. Adopt this love, even My love as your default response to every situation and circumstance. Love and keep on loving. Love when your wishes are crossed and your desires are set at naught. Love when you are put down and disparaged. Love when you are lied on and misrepresented.
“Just love. Love and bless. Love and bless your enemies. Love and bless those who look right through you as though you do not exist. In so doing, you will be accelerated through the midst of the difficulty into a place of rest and blessing by My hand.”