Why this Blog?
At the age of 55, after 29 years of marriage, those “to have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do us part” years, I found myself tossed to the curb. Even more destructive, my husband had been fabricating lies about me. In the world of psychology it’s call projection; taking their own actions of cheating, lying, infidelity and secrets and suggesting that the victim is the guilty party. His character smear campaign was so thorough that by the time we were in divorce court, I had lost nearly all my family, friends and acquaintances.
In reality, I am the fortunate one. My heart aches for those still in his grasp, for they do not know they are being victimized. They don’t know that if, like me, they finally say “no more secret’s, no more lies” that he will systematically start destroying them as he tried to do to me. I get it now. His fear of being exposed led him to attack the one person who truly loved him, who stayed with him through it all. Stayed through the lies, the cheating, the infidelity, the felony conviction, the secrets, the cover-ups.
Freedom!! It’s a wonderful feeling!
There are many blogs, articles, books and videos on Narcisstic Abuse. However, unless you have been made aware of this insidious evilness you may doubt or not even know of it’s existence. If you have been victimized my goal is to offer hope through my journey of discovery, knowledge and subsequent joy. If you have been one of the fortunate ones who has escaped the infection that is Narcisstic Abuse may I suggest that you consider continuing to peruse the information herein? Chances are that you know someone who is being victimized by a Malignant Narcissist. Perhaps you, in fact, know someone who has Narcisstic Personality Disorder and by reading the articles in this blog you will, as I did, have an “ah-ha” moment.
This blog is the result of years of study, reading, growing and learning. There are many tentacles intertwined in the subject of Malignant Narcissism. Narcissism! A twisted darkness. It’s time to expose and eradicate its existence. This blog is me doing my part!